If he works and never takes vacations then it is probably best not to get involved with this guy. After all, why would you want to fall in love with a guy who loves his job more than anything else? As we discussed earlier, do you really want to work at prying him away from what he loves most in this world?
If he doesn’t take vacations then this is an obvious sign that he is a workaholic. In some societies this is a desirable quality. I bet if you had the power to build your very own society or community then you would probably want lots of workaholics around. After all, they do the heavy lifting (they might literally carry heavy stuff around all day or they may do so professionally or analytically – the lawyers, doctors, bankers). The former will probably be too tired and worn out from their all day exercise and punishing schedule to pay you much attention once they find a few minutes or days away from work. In fact, I’ve known some movers who, when not working, can sleep straight for an entire day or two without ever dreaming of flying to Paris or Budapest. Regarding the latter, you will never be the primary love of his life because, well, he is probably the first love of his life (unless he loves work just a little more than he loves himself).
But assuming you are not building your own society (although he may be trying to build a virtual one himself – beware!) then you should discard any illusions you have with being able to change this type of guy. Some guys just love to work. Work defines who they are, delineates who they will interact with and leaves them feeling fulfilled. The prospect of them eating lunch and dinner at their desk every day for the next thirty or forty years doesn’t scare them, it thrills them. Does it excite you? I didn’t think so.
Of course, this post only applies to guys who work. If he is unemployed and doesn’t take vacations you have a whole boatload of other problems.
Hear that, girls? Don’t pick a hardworking guy, because they’re ALL obsessed with their job and won’t care about you!
(Don’t even consider that they’re working towards what they want most, like to look after a sick relative, or to buy a new house or car! Stuff people who follow their dreams and have the willpower to achieve them!)
You make me sick.
Yeah, don’t date guys who can provide you, also dont date guys who aren’t willing to provide you. From the sound of this, this woman is a feminist, and retarded at it. Probably some sad lonely woman who thinks she’s alone becaue men have flaws, when it’s clearly her own flaws.
so the obvious choice ladies, is to date only other women.
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In other words, if he is working hard and NOT taking you out. He is not paying attention to the lady which, taken by your advice, dump him.
Don’t forget to write your next section about. “If he spends to much time with you dump him”
Best advice which was given to me was to NEVER make the woman the center of your world. Stand on your own to feet.
http://howtofindtherightgirl.tumblr.com/
So let me get this straight.
The perfect guy must:
Be rich, but not work and have a lot of vacation.
Abandon his friend just for you.
In good shape, but not too much.
Cook, so that you have nothing to do.
Pay everything for you (basically the woman is a cheapskate).
Be extreme and not moderate (even though being moderate is probably the best thing you can be in life, this way you don’t get caught by credit, weight problems, health problems etc…).
Not lose his hair.
Must travel frequently, even though he must have a big job to pay for your ass.
Not play video game, even in moderation.
Isn’t a funny guy that say joke frequently, even though women pretend to like funny guy.
Makes perfect sense. The article was written by a girl with a personality disorder such as borderline, or is a troll and just wrote a bunch of nonsense to piss us off.
I wouldnt piss on the author of this blog if the bitch was on fire… I love too cook have a couple extra pounds, play video games, love to travel, joke around, work hard play hard, going bald, have a lot to offer and found the perfect woman to offer it too. Bottom line ladies, find the right one for you.. do not listen to some cunt with nothing better to do with her shit life then write useless blogs.